When I head to your house, first thing I would be searching for is your bookshelf. Yes, for it speaks volume about you.
People hoarding books have favorable human relating than those who don't have any. Yes, for books teach us a lot of things.
Get a story book and see how people behave in the story. Their goal to attain the very best rung of the ladder, say career, business, etc. they could be in constant battle with their inner demons. Yes, either pride, envy, jealousy, or so on is actually a bitter truth about themselves. Learning how they face these and overcome is a thing that can be achieved also when we feel the same travail. We must be good, kind and fair and just in order to be called well-adjusted individuals. For, living with https://nalda.de/ , we need to be an easy task to be with, know our boundaries and ready to learn a thing or two about relating. And, book reading is one sure way to get ourselves the needed skills in dealing with differing people around. Vicarious learning is key. When you read book character being the butt of jokes, or maligned or what, you tend to get empathized. You know that it is not just a a good thing to accomplish such or receive such treatment. Thanks, to books I have read!
When I made a survey with my students, only few of them have reading materials at home. They don't have any books aside from textbooks given by the institution to allow them to read for the institution year. This is so alarming, considering the importance of book reading to a youngster in order to develop his/her comprehension skills, fluency and vocabulary, but way more on his/her appreciation of human dynamics where people have different personalities, beliefs and all, thus having different action-reactions to a given issue, etc.
Young minds should be progressed into well-rounded persons later. They need to have absorbed wisdom from great literature around and be more sympathetic sufficient reason for empathy to all, especially those beyond their close contact. Challenges with biases, hatred with some people --though irrational and all, still persist due to lack of the habit of reading books and learning the dynamics of positive social interactions.
Those people who are wide and wild readers, if you notice, they're silent and more an easy task to be with, they might get one's uniqueness sans bias and prejudice and all. That is the essence of reading books where we are more understanding, supportive and what-not to people around.
However, there are always exception to the rule: some of us, have this tenacity to be audaciously prejudiced an individual. Even, so-called educated ones. Yes, true education sometimes appears on how you cope with people beyond your close contact, the way you treat them is your own brand of social adjustment: treat people well showing your learned behavior gotten from varied readings, experiences and so on.
So the the next time I visit you, kindly serve coffee or tea... and a book which you have read countless times! I would get something a wisdom from such and be a better person than the one I used to be. Just kidding!